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Focusing the intent of your relationship
Author(s):
Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield
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This book is a map to help others design their own personal protocols. It is a book that provides countless tips and
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A book of practical communication insights
Author(s):
Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield
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Many of our adult behaviors are largely invisible to us because they’re accepted and supported by our culture. It doesn’t occur
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your guide to play, parties, and scene protocols
Author(s):
Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield
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This is not a book that explains what BDSM is, this is a book that explains what BDSM is all
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a guide for creating mindful relationships for Dominants and submissives
Author(s):
Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield
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This is a book about relationships. Adventuresome relationships. Relationships that are not exactly like vanilla relationships. BDSM relationships
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Updated handbook of concepts, approaches and practices
Author(s):
Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield
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As you learn more about M/s structures, you will learn that unlike the popularized version in which the slave’s primary reason-for-being
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Refining the fire—ideas that matter
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Robert J. Rubel Ph.D.
M. Jen Fairfield
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In my view, the Master/slave dynamic provides an almost unique opportunity for a like-minded couple to design a magical life for themselves… so
… Read MoreHazy goals produce hazy results. Clearly define your goals. Write them down, make a plan for achieving them, set a deadline, visualize the results, and go after them.
The Book Series
Because the worlds of BDSM and Master/slave are so different, we have created two new book series:
BDSM Mastery
This series of books is the world of sado-masochistic (SM) play and Dominant/submissive (D/s) relationships. There are two books available in this series: one on play, parties, and scene protocols and the other on D/s relationships.
In my world, D/s involves a dominant and a submissive, and the submissive retains some personal rights -- where and when to work, religion, contact with friends and biological family.
Master/slave Mastery
This series of books is about authority-transfer relationships. The only book now available is a rewrite and substantial expansion of my prior book titled: Master/slave Relationships: Handbook of theory and practice.
In my world, M/s is based on service and obedience and where the slave falls on the personality scale from dominant to submissive is secondary to the slave's quality of service and obedience. Here, the "s" can easily stand for "subordinate" rather than "submissive." As in, the Colonel is subordinate (but not submissive) to the General. In my world, the "s-type" in the M/s relationship is owned property.